It is not quite that cut and dry. We usually try to get a feel for the couple but don't like to drag things out. If on a second meetup you're not ready, it is likely not a good fit.
We have many times through the years met for the first time and then DTF. Some have been regrettable, so now patience and creating a friendship first then DTF...DTF...DTF whenever we get together is always fun!
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