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Swingers Personals - Create your own extensive personal profile, even add your own profile questions, and show other members who you are and for what or whom you are looking. Add up to 75 photos to your profile in three (public, validated members only, and private by invitation) categories. Pictures are secure which make it harder to be copied.

Private Mail - Our private mail system guarantees your privacy. You never have to give out your personal email information. Our mail provides options like mail history, personal folders, mail block list and broadcast mails.

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Forums - An active bulletin board with topics about just about anything. Place your own topic or just add to the existing topics.

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Favorites List - Create your own favorite member list.

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